Yes, you can. You can go threw life passively and not hold on to any values.. but let me tell you something:
What makes your life great are your values.
Things come and go. Life is like a never ending highway, just when you leave your house you have so many options to take a ride here or there. You can get to anywhere..
My grandparents were together all their life. The built together, they loved each other until the last day.. they really decided to be in each others life no matter what comes.
The thing is, people make mistakes and we are all not perfect. How can we go threw life making the hard decisions when we do not even know who we are? Who we aim to be?
You know nothing really in this life and everything is just here for a limited time.. just think about dahlias running clocks.. time flies and you don’t have the time to ponder over every decision for days.. yes you can but who does that?
We need a set of values! in order to make great and quick decisions. We need a set purpose and goal!
If you once take the time to define where you want to head in life and where you do not want to go, yo clear yourself from the clutter that decision making brings with it.
No one really knows what their lives hold! Never forget that we are all just made of flesh and blood. We are all human and therein lies the beauty.
1. reflecting on the previous decade
Who was the person you looked in the mirror to 10 years ago?
What did you do? Who were your friends? What were your rituals and daily habits?
What was your ambition then? Which goals did you set for your future?
So did you achieve it or not? What did you value to achieve it or not achieve it? Were you seeking comfort over studies? Where you valuing shopping over saving money?
Now we dig into the future with asking ourselves the question: ” What type of person is an amazing —?
You can here think about a goal you would like to achieve like financial freedom and ask yourself what kind of person is an amazing financially free individual? Or, what type of person is an amazing inspirational teacher and speaker?
Do you know someone that is that type of person? If yes, do you recognize some aspects in them about yourself? What is there still to be developed that they have but you do not have?
For example let’s take Tatiana James. She is a self made Multimillionaire, just in her middle twenties and she ,ade it happen by her own curiosity ans discipline. She is also very beautiful, smart and healthy, living in a wonderful relationship. She is traveling the world and has built her own brand.
Her core values could be:
- Courage
- Curiosity
- Discipline
- Faithfullness
- Health
Now, what are your core values? If they do not connect too much then you might be on the wring path.. and you should rethink your goals. Maybe you are loving to make music and want to be financially free then you should maybe switch out one thing by Passion or so..
Ask yourself: What type of person is an amazing musician and business owner that is financially free?
For example: Alisha Keys, Gwen Stefani or Beyonce and Queen Latifah
and what are their values?
- Self Believe: even when no-one does, having your own goals in mind
- Courage: going out there and doing it, singing,..
- Health: being fit and looking good
- Mastery: being the best in their niche
- Discipline: continuously practicing even when no-one is watching..
Try living by those values and watch your world change!
Never forget to eat that frog beauty!
XOXO your froggie community