what to do when all goes wrong – read on beauty..

Life sucks! yes, you have heard it, sometimes life just sucks.

Sometimes all you dreamed and hoped for goes into nothingness and you end up in a worse position than before. Sometimes you wake up from your dream and the reality of life hits you like a rocket. Like a rocket! It was so easy to dream, but well – maybe the dream was meant to stay a dream…in the first place..

What if this dream, this position you seek so desperately, the ideal weight you worked towards, the relationship you hoped for so badly.. was not a CURSE but a BLESSING by showing you what could be possible for you?

Beauty.. the wrong thing to do right now is thinking it was all for nothing.. trust me I have been there and it fu*ing hurts and you feel like a stupid pile of s*! I know!

But I also know if it wasn’t for that dream, would I keep on waking up at 5a.m. working out, reading, showering propheting this day is going to be a good one?

We will never know. But what if you throw it all away now just because of one little failure, just because the employer that hired you turned out to be a fraud, just because you still weigh 74kg even when you are working out and eating right, just because you give it your best in your relationship every single day but your partner seems to get uber angry at you from time to time without any special reason?

Honestly I understand if you hate life, I do sometimes hate life as well.

When you find one thing that does not go the way you wanted it to, you seem to see all the other lies you talked yourself into.. suddenly, because you already feel pain, you are not scared anymore of seeing all the other things and you let yourself see the reality of your life circumstances.

The only thing you can do at his point is get real REAL. GET REAL REAL BEAUTY. Stop bulls* yourself. You are where you are because of who you have become and the choices you have made along the way. The good news is these are your thoughts, your circumstances, your choices. YOU. So do YOU.

From now on learn out of this situation, remember how you talked yourself – note it in your mind – never allow yourself taking the same route again -give yourself a good cry and then go on with your life! Life is not fair, it never was, it never will be.. we beautys know that and that’s why we play the cards we are dealt with wisely!

Never forget to eat that frog beauty, xoxo your froggie mommie <3